tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post6781970166859924980..comments2023-05-11T06:52:10.945-04:00Comments on Nikky's Strength & Weakness: A Cry for HelpNikky44http://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comBlogger89125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-28490624912578077492013-01-29T07:08:08.418-05:002013-01-29T07:08:08.418-05:00Hola! I've been following your site for a long...Hola! I've been following your site for a long time now and finally got the bravery to go ahead and give you a shout out from Kingwood Texas! Just wanted to tell you keep up the good job!<br /><i>Check out my weblog</i> :: <b><a href="http://lipam.lurk.org/wiki/index.php?title=User:AubreyBow" rel="nofollow">sells costumes</a></b>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-78247190026059559572012-06-16T03:34:11.206-04:002012-06-16T03:34:11.206-04:00I'm sorry Lisa that I just noticed now that I ...I'm sorry Lisa that I just noticed now that I didn't reply to your comment in here. You always have encouraging words for me. Thank you for understanding. You're right, i know a lot of pain, but I will make it. Much love <3Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-458952230129132042012-05-14T08:50:25.844-04:002012-05-14T08:50:25.844-04:00Missed this last week somehow, Nikky. But I am gl...Missed this last week somehow, Nikky. But I am glad you got such an outpouring of loving comments. Just want to say what an admirable, courageous, creative and loving person you are. Just by introducing your world and sharing your struggles, you change us and make us think and feel. Your ability to endure such pain and stay positive is an example of great love to all of us who read your blog. You deserve your own love, though I know it's often the hardest thing to give yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-68170863265883559362012-05-14T01:10:07.641-04:002012-05-14T01:10:07.641-04:00Love you <3Love you <3Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-79099549371600074452012-05-13T19:19:26.071-04:002012-05-13T19:19:26.071-04:00Thank you very much Amber for your sweet words and...Thank you very much Amber for your sweet words and encouragement!! Love you my friend!Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-51861319679096724982012-05-13T19:18:09.614-04:002012-05-13T19:18:09.614-04:00You always send me such BEAUTIFUL replies Zee!!!
I...You always send me such BEAUTIFUL replies Zee!!!<br />I still have the dream too. Don't forget the animals around, and the knitting!!!<br />Love you so much <3Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-90148501983168548852012-05-13T19:10:43.868-04:002012-05-13T19:10:43.868-04:00Awesome, your reception of my offerring is a gift!...Awesome, your reception of my offerring is a gift!Jodihttp://www.healnowandforever.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-77759005782111446222012-05-13T14:27:15.495-04:002012-05-13T14:27:15.495-04:00You are such a beautiful person Nikki. You deserve...You are such a beautiful person Nikki. You deserve love and respect and I know our Heavenly Father smiles every time He thinks of you....which is every moment :).<br /><br />This may sound silly but I've started sending myself a few e-cards with Dayspring....mainly for important days that others wouldn't think about.....like the anniversary of my Dad's death....yep I sent myself a card for then. Anywho, it goes along with the whole loving yourself thing. You can't truly love others if you don't have a healthy self love (key word healthy). Maybe you could send cards of encouragement to the little girl inside...do it ahead of time so you'll be surprised when you get them. Treat yourself whenever you can.......even if it's just simple....like a candy bar at the park...a candlelit bubble bath with music. I'm learning that it's best not to wait for others to treat me well......sometimes I just need to treat myself. I grew up with low self esteem but over the years I've learned that I can't love others like I love myself if I don't even love myself. Mom always says you have to be your best friend....she had a very broken childhood too like you & eventually by God's grace she found that inner strength. I'm so glad you are on that path...learning how precious you are and that you do DESERVE love :) ((hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-43463903054333057432012-05-12T18:53:18.701-04:002012-05-12T18:53:18.701-04:00My sweet Nicole you are one of the strongest wom...My sweet Nicole you are one of the strongest women i know. I dont mean physically but mentally and even emotionally. There are but probably not more than a hand full of people such as yourself. You are unique One of a kind. You teach us all to appreciate what we have and to accept what we dont/ To make the best of a bad situation and with such grace and humbleness. You picked me up when I was way down there and because of you I am so much better and in such a much better place. You are so loved by so many people. most of them whom you met as strangers and have become friends. No matter how bad things are for you, you still manage to be there for others. I don't understand why you are in the position you are but I am sure God has put you there for a very good reason. I think though it is now about time that you are the one who should be happy be in a good place. You should not have to suffer as you do. It is going to happen I know it then we can sit on the porch watching the sun set and just chilling out. relaxing.<br />love you always. Thank you for being you.zeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08736115902983408371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-24379146483183756572012-05-11T05:13:28.967-04:002012-05-11T05:13:28.967-04:00I don't know why Brenda your comment went to S...I don't know why Brenda your comment went to Spam! I'm sorry!! Thank you so much. Love you <3Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-51232518818588083932012-05-10T09:53:07.475-04:002012-05-10T09:53:07.475-04:00Thank you thank you thank you so much Louise|!!!
Y...Thank you thank you thank you so much Louise|!!!<br />Your words touch me. I am trying, I know I am doing the best I can. I want to know what is right and do what is right.<br /><br />Much love to you !!!Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-18215275868564747972012-05-10T09:48:56.940-04:002012-05-10T09:48:56.940-04:00You're right Sandy!! The support I am getting ...You're right Sandy!! The support I am getting on this Blog is more than I even had in all my lifeNikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-62044955446193285002012-05-10T09:47:59.978-04:002012-05-10T09:47:59.978-04:00Thank you so much!!I am also trying to look for th...Thank you so much!!I am also trying to look for the positive of my fear. I mean trying to use my fear in order to progress and improve rather than let it depress me. Thank you for your continuous support.Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-78224332544349247362012-05-09T08:45:46.688-04:002012-05-09T08:45:46.688-04:00Dear beautiful, loving and loved Nikky,
YOur word...Dear beautiful, loving and loved Nikky,<br /><br />YOur words are powerful -- and your questions -- and thoughts on why you deleted your writings are incredibly insightful.<br /><br />And it is true -- our greatest strengths can become our greatest weakness. It is only when we love ourselves, both sides of the coin, dark and light, shiny and dull, beauty and the beast, that we walk in the grace of balance and love.<br /><br />Your journey is an incredible testament to your courage and heart. And your willingness to explore who you are, and where you are, is inspiring.<br /><br />Thank you for leaving the link to your post for me. I so appreciate your presence in my world and being here.<br /><br />Self-doubt is just the critter inside feeling scared you are shining too brightly (they think if we shine too brightly we'll get hurt) Love the critter. Tell him you're safe and shine!!!!!<br /><br />You are brilliant in your light.<br /><br />And breathe... this too shall pass.<br /><br />Hugs and love,Louise Gallagherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13522775693728655487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-1602874213357954142012-05-08T17:41:52.129-04:002012-05-08T17:41:52.129-04:00Nikky - I blog because it helps me to work through...Nikky - I blog because it helps me to work through things. The blogging community is so close and supportive. Write....don't delete and you will find so much support and love.Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09175077917096988524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-22431581607826856002012-05-08T09:53:07.255-04:002012-05-08T09:53:07.255-04:00Self love. It's the hardest! In my opinion... ...Self love. It's the hardest! In my opinion... Even though I am at a great place in my life, anxieties sometimes trouble my mind. Self doubt and fear are very real and very discouraging. I have gotten better at training my brain to focus on the positive. I learned that I had to fall in love with myself, before I could truly love others. Psalms is a great encouragement to me, as well as choosing to be around people that I know really love and want the best for me and doing activities that make me feel happy & whole! ... Writing is a great healing tool! I agree. God Bless you!MFEO2009https://www.blogger.com/profile/04204650566306925124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-49299122453023639882012-05-08T03:51:23.153-04:002012-05-08T03:51:23.153-04:00Hi Betsy,
Nights are hard, and sometimes days are ...Hi Betsy,<br />Nights are hard, and sometimes days are very hard, but as long as we have friends who care, everything becomes easier.<br />Thank you for your visit and the nice comment!! <br />Love,<br />NikkyNikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-86453645221069129342012-05-08T03:49:11.702-04:002012-05-08T03:49:11.702-04:00Thank you very much Cathy for stopping by :)Thank you very much Cathy for stopping by :)Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-31162687218555340212012-05-08T03:48:17.289-04:002012-05-08T03:48:17.289-04:00I am starting to do so!! Thank you date Girl :)I am starting to do so!! Thank you date Girl :)Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-72968664464883217372012-05-08T02:17:17.039-04:002012-05-08T02:17:17.039-04:00I think it's great that you're able to use...I think it's great that you're able to use your writing as an outlet. I hope one day you can learn to love yourself.Mrs. Matchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09306267724811720324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-47689345792701047762012-05-07T22:25:41.831-04:002012-05-07T22:25:41.831-04:00Hi Nikky,
What a heartfelt post. I love this line...Hi Nikky,<br /><br />What a heartfelt post. I love this line - "Above all, I need MY OWN love, respect and acceptance. Is that too much to ask?" Don't we all and I know for me it takes daily thought and reminders to love and respect myself. That is the first step toward loving others. Thank you for sharing.Cathy | Treatment Talkhttp://treatmenttalk.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-22898207947764454932012-05-07T20:00:59.697-04:002012-05-07T20:00:59.697-04:00Nikky,
You are feeling what so many of us feel. A...Nikky,<br />You are feeling what so many of us feel. And at night it feels so much worse, doesn't it? I spent many nights awake worrying about my kids and writing about it. It's what became my books and my blog. We are all filled with imperfections and that's what makes us perfect in some way. I'm glad we've found each other through blogging and look forward to reading through your blog!<br />BetsyBetsy at Zen Mamahttp://zen-mama.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-57220561228378795362012-05-07T13:54:38.604-04:002012-05-07T13:54:38.604-04:00I read that example on a Blog two days ago, but I ...I read that example on a Blog two days ago, but I also can't remember which one :)<br />Thank you for your reply and I will certainly try to find the book. I will let you know once I read it!Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-79933064149056630482012-05-07T13:53:00.978-04:002012-05-07T13:53:00.978-04:00Hi Irene, Yes, it's exactly a work-in-progress...Hi Irene, Yes, it's exactly a work-in-progress. I can feel all the progress I made since I started this Blog. I have down days and stressful days, but all in all, I feel so much better. Thank you very much for listening and replying. Much love to you <3Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-28239961538748797672012-05-07T13:49:32.429-04:002012-05-07T13:49:32.429-04:00Thank you Rachel. You are right and I do feel stro...Thank you Rachel. You are right and I do feel stronger after writing this post. I do because I could finally say how I feel, but also because of all the love I have receives in here.Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.com