tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post8722596591976556620..comments2023-05-11T06:52:10.945-04:00Comments on Nikky's Strength & Weakness: I challenged the FearNikky44http://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-77085926123430441362015-03-09T05:49:06.876-04:002015-03-09T05:49:06.876-04:00You had the courage to leave. You can be proud of ...You had the courage to leave. You can be proud of you Nikki. I am proud of you. You are rebuilding your life and you are heading towards more and more and more light. Sending you love and May God bless you with peace and serenity.Marie Kléberhttps://mahshimarshmallow.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-7709472570311949422014-10-09T00:30:34.746-04:002014-10-09T00:30:34.746-04:00Best wishes, Nikki. Your courage is inspiring. I&#...Best wishes, Nikki. Your courage is inspiring. I'm glad you've found a job you like. xxNarellehttp://www.solidgoldcreativity.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-14325075990210358162014-08-24T00:30:55.673-04:002014-08-24T00:30:55.673-04:00You're an inspiration! It takes such courage t...You're an inspiration! It takes such courage to do what you did but also to share it. Your story will help so many women who are suffering right now. Stay strong!Lisa Thomsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05310475781785711620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-35828130002430473932014-08-09T22:14:02.393-04:002014-08-09T22:14:02.393-04:00I'm so happy my post or story could help in an...I'm so happy my post or story could help in any way, and I'm also so happy for you because you took the decision to stand up for yourself and your rights to be respected and loved. I know you will always have to face him, but it can be with your rules, your decision, your control of your life and decisions! Keep strong. Much love!Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-43484814032666697622014-08-09T22:10:13.594-04:002014-08-09T22:10:13.594-04:00Thank you very much Corinne! I wouldn't be cou...Thank you very much Corinne! I wouldn't be courageous if I didn't have all the support, everyone has showed me on this blog! Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-51578760067929630912014-08-09T22:07:06.479-04:002014-08-09T22:07:06.479-04:00You're so right Tina! It's easy to remembe...You're so right Tina! It's easy to remember bad times, but so much better to look at how I came out of those bad moments!! Much loveNikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-43669527269845093982014-08-09T22:04:18.748-04:002014-08-09T22:04:18.748-04:00You always have the right words for me You always have the right words for me Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-29837738977187020922014-08-09T22:02:36.751-04:002014-08-09T22:02:36.751-04:00Thank you so much Myrna! Although some days I stil...Thank you so much Myrna! Although some days I still feel like I have failed, but then I look back at how different my life is now, and it makes me happy. Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-27580660190607667802014-08-09T22:00:08.982-04:002014-08-09T22:00:08.982-04:00Big hugs to you too Vidya!! Much love!Big hugs to you too Vidya!! Much love!Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-66542962775843536532014-08-09T21:59:04.538-04:002014-08-09T21:59:04.538-04:00Thank you so much Nadine. I really appreciate you ...Thank you so much Nadine. I really appreciate you and your comment. I remember one of your messages, some time before I left, and it gave me so much courage. Thank youNikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-66102825854230078072014-08-09T21:56:35.032-04:002014-08-09T21:56:35.032-04:00Thank you so much Tanya. I often need to hear that...Thank you so much Tanya. I often need to hear that I took the right decision. It happens that I doubt myself and even forget what were the real reasons that made me do it. I'm so glad we connected. Much love!Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-39337680222224786202014-08-09T21:52:40.736-04:002014-08-09T21:52:40.736-04:00I love you my Pat!!!I love you my Pat!!!Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-26426130872644512752014-08-07T10:09:06.102-04:002014-08-07T10:09:06.102-04:00I hope you remember me from wordpress as letssprea...I hope you remember me from wordpress as letsspreadcompassion.wordpress.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-32674509970937419422014-08-07T10:08:05.304-04:002014-08-07T10:08:05.304-04:00Nikki , i have never expressed my personal issues ...Nikki , i have never expressed my personal issues on any public forum, but your post gave me alot of strength.I have similar issues, although there is no abuse, but humiliation, taunt, making me feel small and unwanted, useless, unloved, and no concerns whatsoever of my emotional feelings and needs.Instead there is alot of depression, which is making my disease worse.<br />I have raised two of his kids with Rheumatoid Arthritis, but he never seems to understand that i cannot be an efficient housewife and need help now due to my aching diseased body.I bared with him 10 yrs for my kids, and now am trying to detach us from them, but he is their father and that will always mke me face him and bear him.Please pray that i develop the strength just like you!Take care dear :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-80357601294877563542014-08-05T10:06:11.753-04:002014-08-05T10:06:11.753-04:00I am awe-struck by your courage, dear Nikky! I wis...I am awe-struck by your courage, dear Nikky! I wish you and your children continued healing and many blessings. ♥Corinne Rodrigueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11142098428026084994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-29225820957342263732014-08-03T22:22:49.920-04:002014-08-03T22:22:49.920-04:00I loved reading this update, Nikky. You have been ...I loved reading this update, Nikky. You have been through so much, but you are still here, still striving forward. I know you will continue to heal. Tina Fariss Barbourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15659018994558471570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-15139238508166421242014-08-03T18:28:24.896-04:002014-08-03T18:28:24.896-04:00Sweetie, just thinking about tomorrow, not the fut...Sweetie, just thinking about tomorrow, not the future, is a huge leap of faith, and all God asks us to handle are the present moments. He's in the picture, right there with you, wanting you to find the true you He meant you to be. Be strong and have courage, always, Nikky, and know you are never alone. Love and blessings!Martha Jane Orlandohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11620499267401065780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-14265904903082480772014-08-03T15:30:24.768-04:002014-08-03T15:30:24.768-04:00I wondered about you, wished you well. So glad th...I wondered about you, wished you well. So glad that in spite of all the ups and downs, you're progressing. Good luck with your job, the divorce, your children and especially in finding yourself.Myrna R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15088915165678737118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-41663619677622202932014-08-03T13:52:08.315-04:002014-08-03T13:52:08.315-04:00You are such an inspiration, Nikky! May you always...You are such an inspiration, Nikky! May you always be happy! <br /><br />Love and hugs to you! Was so happy to see your post in my Facebook feed today!Vidya Suryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12911836541019511108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-24623081443614928202014-08-03T11:23:56.007-04:002014-08-03T11:23:56.007-04:00Wow, it's been two years already since you mad...Wow, it's been two years already since you made the break. Time passes so quickly. It's great to read your update -- you've made such tremendous progress under difficult conditions. You have great courage and strength, and it's wonderful to know you and your children are safe. May your life continue to blossom with peace and joy.Nadine_Feldmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05742177071130596367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4170348357325551806.post-69312670305730672172014-08-03T11:12:11.751-04:002014-08-03T11:12:11.751-04:00Amazing story from an amazing woman! It takes a ve...Amazing story from an amazing woman! It takes a very strong, very loving person to do what you did. I know that all of the aspects of abuse can't be ranked on a scale of badness, because it's all horrendous, but still, I think one of the worst parts of it is the abusers professed love and the fact that he (or she) believes it and makes the other person believe it, too. But you demonstrated the deepest love of all in taking your children and yourself and fleeing. While it's so very difficult at first, it's the best thing you could have done for all of you. You are truly an inspiration.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15664746551458101247noreply@blogger.com